Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Reasons why you are single #1

You are single because you want to be a little selfish and there is nothing wrong with that. At least you are being honest with yourself. You should take time to love and spoil yourself. Being single means you have the freedom to do whatever you want. You can get up and go as you please. Being single is even better when you don’t have kids because you are able to move and travel where ever without any responsibilities.
Being single can actually be a blessing if you really think about it. Some people are consumed with thoughts of finding someone and getting married. Their self-worth is based on finding a husband/wife, someone who will love them. True self-worth is based on how you think of yourself. No one else can define your self-worth. If you don’t know who you are or your worth then you NEED to stay single.
Not sure how to build your self-worth? It may take time but it is something that can be done. The first step is to be a little selfish and treat yourself to new experiences on your own. When you start to do things on your own you begin to learn just how strong you are. When you finally learn how strong you are you will feel empowered. Your confidence will build and your self-worth will grow right along with it.
Just remember to be a little selfish, learn how strong you are, build confidence, and empower yourself. Once you do these things you will be strong enough to stand beside your future partner instead of behind him/her. In the mean time, enjoy this single life!
*This Blog entry is from a previous blog I use to have. I decided to post some of the relationship blog topics on here. Reasons Why Are Single will be a new series of blog posts I will be putting up from time to time. Enjoy :-)